Was looking fwd to Fri, cos my hb finally finish his two papers, and yeah, we can go shopping for bb's stuffs.
But, my mood was affected after my hb told me his mum would like to join us....I really dont like the idea of three of us going shopping together..i felt so weird. I really prefer the courtship feeling...and I dont understand y his mum wants to tag along. Hb ask me if im okie, of course i mus say okie...even if im not okie..i cant make thgs difficult for him isnt it. Usually his mum will hv pgms of her own, like mahjong etc, but when she is really bored, she will ask his son to go where n where...i know i shouldnt feel unhapi over tht, but i am really not looking fwd to tmr....in fact, i dont feel like talking to him even now...i cant show him my unhappiness, cos i cant let him know im not happy over this. I never like him being a mommy boy...n sometimes his mum also not automatic..when shes lonely, she dont look for her husband..yet she looks for her son. I know hes in a difficult position also..
In future, theres more of such thgs, cos when bb is out, her mum is going to move in with us at least during wkdays...to take care of my bb, but, i thk i be the odd one out next time...when bb is asleep, mebi i shld immerse in msn just like last time...or mebi blog more..smtimes i really hope my mum is the one taking care of my bb for me..at least im more familar with her...I jus hv to endure..
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Hi, long time no see... hehe...
read about ur blog, my baby was looking after by my MIL, so many problem!
Before giving birth, our relationship is quit gd cos we did not stay together, after my girl give her look after, cnt said anything or tell her don't give food which baby cnt eat...
I got quarrel with her very seriously before, but in the end my FIL ask me to forget her cos i still need her help to look after my girl....
Hi, I guess these are very common probs faced by kids being looked after by mil instead of own mum. Dont dare to think tht much now, I guess, if i detect something is not correct with the way the bb is brought up, I will ask my hb to talk to her...since we went for the antenatal courses before,so my hb himself shld also know what is right and what is wrong...I just hv to pray hard my mil is modernised enough to accept our suggestion and opinion.
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